Teen Flirting Tip #1 – Play Word Games

When I say “Play Word Games” I’m not talking about playing scrabble.

I’m talking about changing someone’s words around and using them to playfully tease that person with while you’re flirting – making them laugh in the process. A common example is when I was in junior high, when a girl would ask something like “well, when are we gonna do it?” I would say, “eww, we’re too young to do it, besides, I’d never do it with you anyway” (jokingly).

This is an example of changing someone’s words around, and it’s easy to use for teens.

The point here is begin trying to change what people say around to make it funny, then say it in a half serious, half jokingly way. This is a great teen flirting tip becuase when we’re younger, it seems like everything has two meanings.

Teen Flirting Tip #2 – Playing Physical Games

When you’re in school with someone, you have a lot of opportunities to tease them without saying anything. This is the basic idea of the physical game.

When you’re in junior high and high school, most people aren’t really comfortable touching each other and sometimes not comfortable talking to the opposite sex either. (Ever been to a dance where no one would dance and everyone seemed so shy?)

Take advantage of this by not being afraid to touch the opposite sex in a playful way when flirting.

An example of this is the physical game or test.

One of these would be the classic boy crazy/girl crazy test. If you don’t remember, it’s where you walk up to somoene, start talking, then say, I bet you’re boy crazy (or girl crazy) then say…

“Let’s test to see…”

Then lightly grab the back of their neck with your thumb and index finger and gently squeeze several times, quickly. If they laugh, they’re boy (or girl) crazy.

Then just say…

“We could never hang out, you’re boy crazy” or… “We could never hang out, since you didn’t laugh, you don’t like guys, so you may like girls, and I’m not into that.”

You can make these up on your own. They’re just done in fun, so don’t try too hard to get them right.

So go and make up your own game (or use the one above) where you tickle or pinch, and if they react, tease them about it.

Teen Flirting Tip #3 – Playing Hard To Get

This one is very important, and playing hard to get works great when you are yunger or older – so keep this teen flirting tip in mind even when you’re not a teen.

The thing about playing hard to get is that you should REALLY be hard to get and not just playing it. If you’re obviously just playing, it won’t work as well.

What this means is that you should stay busy as much as you can, whether or not you like someone. This may be hard to do for some, but everyone can do it and it will pay off.

Here are some examples of playing hard to get:

1. When you’re on the phone, act like people keep trying to call you. Keep saying “hold on a minute, I’ve got someone beeping in…” It frustrates the other person, because it makes you look almost too important. It seems cruel, but do it two or three times in a call (every once in a while, not every time you talk to them), and it works wonders. Don’t overdo it though.

2. Don’t call em for several days, and when you do talk to them, tell them you’ve been so busy, and just haven’t had the time.

3. When you’re instant messaging on the computer or telephone, take a long time to text them back or start texting and in the middle of a conversation, don’t text back until in the morning.

These may seem a bit extreme, but if you use them, you’ll see that they work well in high school and junior high (and above).

This is also very effective in a long distance relationship. Click here to read more tips for long distance relationships.

Teen Flirting Tip #4 – Making up Drama

This can be really fun.

There are so many examples of this that you can use, that I can’t begin to list them all here.

Many people say that they don’t like drama. Don’t believe them.

Drama is effective for the same reason people flock to go see movies – they test your emotions.

Unless they have nervous or emotional issues, chances are, they enjoy drama (but they will act like they don’t).

Here are some examples of making up drama:

Not calling them for weeks at a time Going out with them, breaking up with them in two days, then getting back together with them. Ignoring them totally Testing or playing a game with them without saying how they can win. If they lose though, your relationship is over.

Drama really is effective as well as fun. It keeps thing challenging. Again, don’t over do it!

Teen Flirting Tip #5 – Remember, you could always just tell em you like em

When you’re this age, you can usually get away with just telling them you like them. This doesn’t work as well when you’re older or if the person you want is really really cute, like a 10. This is still a great last resort though.

Hopefully, you’ll be able to use this information to help you. Don’t forget the other teen flirting tips and resources that we have available. Also, feel free to browse around for all types of other methods and tips to help you succeed with that special someone.